WILLY WIENER, PhD: That's a good question. It seems that for as long as people have been playing sports that it has provided some kind of outlet for people to vent a lot of their feelings, their frustrations, their anxieties and their anger perhaps. All too often, however, I think people's approach to competitive sports leads to them feeling more stressed out and undermines the purpose of recreation and relaxation.
PAUL MONIZ: But that's exactly it. You're talking about it being a way to vent. People are trying to vent their own frustrations, and those frustrations may have absolutely nothing to do with their opponent, but when you get in the game suddenly the opponent is the scapegoat. What's happening? What's the process that is happening up here?
WILLY WIENER, PhD: Part of it is adaptive. A lot of the competitive sports -- there's a benefit to approaching it with desire to win, but part of that is, I think, goes all the way back to something that's really much more primitive and adaptive, which is wanting to win. I think when some of those hormones start to kick in, you start to focus singularly on winning the game.
PAUL MONIZ: You go out on a Saturday afternoon -- let's say you're playing a game of football with your friends. All of you are friends aside from the game. You get into the game and suddenly this animal takes over, and your friend becomes really an opponent that you want to crush. It can cause friction in the friendship even after the game is over, especially if you lose.
WILLY WIENER, PhD: Yes.
PAUL MONIZ: So what would you recommend under these circumstances?